The only thing less productive than reading an email three separate times and not responding is misreading the message and responding right away. Some people come off either illiterate or disrespectful with their correspondence. Worse yet, I think it’s because they’re attempting to be productive and responsive–but both of those aims are best achieved when doing something right the first time–which both saves you time and is more professional. Working faster is not the only goal.
I ran into an old acquaintance at a business function who suggested getting together. In each email correspondence he missed something I said earlier in the message thread, forcing me to repeat myself and him to respond to many more emails. The worst part: though we both restated the date numerous times in the message, he showed up on the wrong day. When I notified him on the day-of our meeting (which was a week later) he had to cancel because he never realized that he was at fault all along and at that point didn’t have the date available. It was both a laughable taste of his own medicine and doubly frustrating for me.
This is not the first time something like this has occurred (I have so many more stories, and I’m sure you do, too). So here’s my advice, with a smattering of both productivity tips and etiquette:
- Limit your PDA/BlackBerry correspondence to when you must respond to those messages immediately. While it may seem to you like you’re processing email on the go, the BlackBerry medium lends itself to emails that are of a much lower quality than the message you could write in the same amount of time from a computer. Don’t let your audience suffer at the hands of your perceived-productivity
- Don’t read your email until you’re ready to process it. Read each email once and then take action on it. If you don’t think you’ll be able to deal with it now then don’t even read it. Better yet, turn off your email until you’re ready to process all of it at once
- When scheduling appointments, be thorough. Offer a first choice and then a couple other options, and be specific about the date of the month, time of day, and location. When they present you options, READ the options carefully–there’s nothing more frustrating than suggesting a date that the person already excluded (this happens ALL the time)
- If you want something resolved, put it in its own email as its own topic. People are poor with responding to multiple items in an email and are more likely to wait a long time before responding or to let some topics slip by. (This ties in with titling each message with an appropriate subject, as well)
- Don’t make them work for no reason. If they suggest a place to meet (and it’s easily google-able), don’t ask for directions or even an address–look it up and confirm it with them. Nothing bugs me more than people using me for a search engine. Better yet, people appreciate when you respect their time and save them the trouble (There are exceptions like campuses and far-away cities, but generally speaking…)
I’m going to respect your time and limit this to five tips. The general point here is that you can make your recipient feel respected while you process your email quickly. Don’t abuse their time or yours by rushing.