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By: David B Katague

David B Katague — Tue, 14 Oct 2008 21:32:58 +0000

Interesting post! You mentioned you change your definition of happiness. I am curious of what is your definition now of happiness. My definition of happiness could be summarized in this statement. “The time you have really live is the time when you have touch the lives of others”.

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By: Jared Goralnick

Jared Goralnick — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 00:34:28 +0000

Hi Alexis, that’s a comforting thought. I guess it speaks to *priming* ourselves for certain things. While some things can’t quite be sought out directly, a lot of things can. Sometimes you can know what you’re looking for and, especially when it’s not something rare or exclusive, it’s amazing how quickly you find it. I hope it continues to work well for you!

By: Jared Goralnick

Jared Goralnick — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 00:32:05 +0000

Victoria,

Those are really good points. I think that the more we respect someone the more we become open to their way of life. That’s not to say that everyone’s way of life is for us, but respect is the first chance for us being open to change. I also think that even when we’re not looking to change, change can find us just from the company we keep. As for really being open to change, I think that we go through cycles in our lives when we’re more or less looking for it…but I haven’t completely got my head around it.

As for trying to hold onto lessons from people until they’re applicable, that’s a challenge. Timing doesn’t always work out. However, it does speak to the value of keeping in touch with people (just a little) so that someday when you’re ready for them, you’ll be able to reach out.

I’ll hold onto these thoughts…maybe they will turn into another post. Thanks!